I Forgive You,For Me.

 Everyone talks about healing “daddy issues” and breaking generational curses but, healing from “mommy issues” is VITAL. It’s almost like we forget that it exist. EVERYTHING starts with the mother. When we were in her womb everything she felt, we felt it too. She is the beginning of your life and can be the one who ends it. Mommy is the nurturer and our very first teacher. Mom teaches us how to look at the world and how to have others treat you. We all want mommy to just be proud of us. We want mommy to “see us”. She is the first person we seek attention from. Some of us are/have been aware of our mommy issues and others of us are just now making things “click”. Although we may have felt abandoned,invisible,unheard or inadequate we do have to realize that mommy had her own issues, and her mother had her own issues and so on and so forth. Yes, I KNOW it is so easy to blame mommy for what you are or are not today. For what you know or don’t know. The fact of the matter is you are not a victim. In the past you may have been but,the past is simply a memory. It’s easy to grip on to the past, and identify with it. The truth is the past only still exist today in your life is because you do identify with it and give it power. The reason for a lot of our hurt,anger, pain and suffering is the lack of awareness that you have the ability to control your feelings which create your thoughts. We have learned to abandon ourselves,to hate ourselves, to forget about ourselves. To be able to control your feelings and thoughts is a super power that you are essentially afraid to use. With all of that being said, I’m just here to remind you of who you are. SiSTAR it is time to heal. It is time to forgive. Forgiveness is NOT for anyone else but you and the generations after you. It’s  time to choose happiness. It’s time to stop playing the blame game. Although I made this based around the mother, it is for any and all situations that require change. I realized personally that no amount of Jesus,crystals,sage,baptisms, Buddha, books etc. could make that change for me. I had to allow forgiveness into my heart. This is not by any means an easy thing to do when we have caused ourselves a life FULL of suffering. It’s time to go within siSTAR and heal. When we heal we save a nation. 

Peace to you.

Xoxo